NoOtherWoman

Sabi nila ang pag-ibig ay isa raw sa nagpapasaya at nagbibigay ng kulay sa ating buhay. Sabi ko naman bakit ganun, madalas ang nasasaktan at lumuluha ay yung umibig ng lubos? Paano naging makulay ang kanilang buhay? Haaay! Eto na naman si Aiko, magbibigay ng walang katuturang ka-echusan tungkol sa pag-ibig.

Hindi ko i-po-promote ang movie na ito sa inyo, pero may relasyon kasi ito sa eksplinasyon ko tungkol sa pag-ibig.  Ano nga ba ang pag-ibig? "LOVE is a BATTLEFIELD" according sa concept ng movie na ito. Nakikipaglaban tayo dahil sa pag-ibig, dahil sa taong mahal natin, walang sukuan kasi kapag sumuko ka ibig sabihin talo ka na. Nasaan na ba ang linyang "If you love someone, you must let that someone go..." ngayon? Bakit tila napalitan na ang linyang ito?

"I PROMISE you, there's no other woman in my life"...

Nag-umpisa kasi yan sa isang PANGAKO. Pangako na kayang baguhin ang damdamin ng isang tao (i'm not judging men, kasi even girls do make promises to their husbands/boyfriends), Pangako na kayang ipa-sugal ang lahat ng pagmamay-ari ng isang tao dahil sa paniniwala niya na kaya ngang gawin nito ang mga bagay na naipangako sa kanya. Iyon pala, nauwi lang lahat sa wala. Naisugal mo ng lahat, wala ng natira, at dun na magsisimula ang paghiram ng katauhan. Minsan kasi may mga bagay na ginagawa tayo na alam naman nating hindi na tayo yon, nagagawa natin ang mga bagay na iyon kasi bunga ng pagkawala ng lahat sa atin dahil lang sa isang pangako, at iyon ang HIRAM NA KATAUHAN. Minsan ang "hiram na katauhan" ay hindi na natin maisasauli kung wala ring naibabalik na katiting na bagay na isinugal natin.

"Ang mundo ay isang malaking Quiapo, maraming snatcher, maaagawan ka, LUMABAN KA!"...

Indeed, hindi ibig sabihin may syota o asawa ang isang tao ay hindi na maaagawan. Marami pa rin ang pumapasok sa isang komplikadong bagay na ito. Dalawa lang naman yan, ang MAAGAWAN ka o ang MANG-AGAW ka. Ang tanging tanong ko lamang bakit kailangan pang pumasok sa maliit na butas na ito na mahirap namang lusotan? Saan ka ba dadaan pabalik? Swerte mo pa kung makakabalik ka pa... makakabalik ka nga ngunit puno ka naman ng galos at sakit. Siguro kung ako ang MAAAGAWAN, hahayaan ko lang siyang maagaw ng iba, kasi kung talagang mahal niya ako, hindi naman siya sasama sa iba diba? Pero madali lang itong sabihin, mahirap naman gawin. Kung ako naman ang MANG-AAGAW, i'll make sure makakalabas pa ako sa sitwasyong pinasukan ko. Anyways, ang punto sa paglaban ay either ipaglaban mo na wag mawala ang taong mahal mo o ipaglaban mo na wag mawala ang sarili mo dahil lang sa ayaw mong mawala ang taong mahal mo. Sana naman unahin natin ang mga sarili natin, sa PAGLABAN, laging nananalo ang mga taong hindi sumusuko lalo na yung mga taong piniling 'wag mawala ang kanilang mga sarili dahil lang sa PAG-IBIG.

LOVE is a MYSTERY. You can't understand love unless na experience mo na kung gaano ka komplikado ito.  Ikaw man yung taong NAAGAWAN, NAGPA-AGAW o NANG-AGAW, Nakagawa man tayo ng mali na sa tingin natin ay hindi na kayang ayusin, sana maisip natin na lahat ng ENTRANCE may EXIT, all of us has a choice.  Handa man natin gawin ang lahat dahil sa pag-ibig, sana lang 'wag natin hayaan na mawala ang katauhan natin dahil lang dun.  LOVE is a four letter word with so many meanings behind it.  Nasa sa'yo yan kung anong kahulugan ng pag-ibig, basta ang importante gawin mo ang tama, eventually, makakasakit din tayo, masasaktan din tayo, ang lagi lang nating tandaan "in love there can be NO OTHER MAN/WOMAN..."

PS: Showing na this September 28 under STAR CINEMA and VIVA FILMS

DAY 5: The SON...

"GOD: Don't look around because you'll be impressed. Don't look down you'll be depressed; just look to Me and you'll be blessed. "


Sometimes we are being pressured by life.  Nothing is safe here on earth, that's the main reason why i really wanted to die.  Because for me it is better to die than to live in the world full of pain and disappointment. I have had enough of those, and ayoko na. Kaya siguro ganito ako ngayon because of the pain being inflicted to me by the people whom i thought would never really hurt me. Napaka bilis kong ma disappoint, hindi lang nasunod yung gusto kong concept or script, wala na disappointed na ako, lalo na kapag nasaktan ako ng taong alam kong hindi ako kayang saktan, nakakasakit ng buong katawan, tagos hanggang boto ang sakit.


Today, i encountered the feeling, na disappoint na naman ako. I thought everything has changed, but i know hanggang thought lang yun, nag-init na naman ang ulo ko, but thank God, He reminded me that when I look to people, i will only end up being disappointed and eventually, ma de-depress ako. But when I'll make Him the center, my point of reference, my everything, I'll be blessed.
DAY 5 has been a very long day for me, a day full of disappointment but at the end of the day, i realized one thing, God had revealed a gift i should rediscover and that is His SON, Jesus. Looking unto Him is a blessing, instead of getting disappointed and depressed, we'll be blessed because we are being reminded that everything here on earth is temporary and one day all of our sacrifices,pains, and disappointments will end.


Thank God, He gave His only son JESUS as a gift.

DAY 4: SECOND TIME AROUND

DAY 4: "SECOND TIME AROUND..."

"Listen to the words, and you can be fooled. Look at the actions, and you can be fooled. Feel deeply into your heart, and then you will know the truth. "

My day started with a text message from someone, in which i did not expect. I did not respond to his message but rather i just kept on thinking of why is he acting strange suddenly.  No offense to that someone but hindi ako agad naniwala sa mga text message niya, pati sa actions na pinapakita niya. He's actually acting weird.  Dami na pumapasok sa isip ko na baka joke na naman ito, o hindi na nito kayang baguhin ang sarili niya.

But then, i prayed to God, "LORD, ano ang i-reveal mo sa akin today?" suddenly He answered me "SIYA"! Natulala ako while sitting on my high chair sa office. "SIYA? Bakit?" Ayoko sanang maniwala pero parang may point nga si God.  Why am i not believing the actions of that guys? It's because hindi siya ganun ever since, but God was telling me, "Why not give him and yourself a chance to prove na kaya niyong dalawang magbago."

All of a sudden, naglabas lahat sa isip ko na everyone really deserves a second chance, chance para sa lahat ng tao hindi lang naman sa lovers or couples yan, pati rin sa pamilya, a chance to gather and have a bonding moments together. Chances are very rare, not everyone can have it but everyone deserves it. Kaya if you are caught by chances grab it and don't waste your time thinking if it's worth it because i tell you it is.

Even God Himself gave us chances everyday, He forgives us, He loves us unconditionally.  Why not be like Him?  We can also forgive and forget, to start a new life by giving ourselves a chance to give second chances to other people.  All of us are capable of making a good coffee, all we have to do is to put the right ingredients and stir it well for it to taste good.  In life if we are given a second chance, we must make the most out of it, and prove that the chance they've given to us eh hindi natin sasayangin.

DAY 4 is a day of rediscovering the GIFT OF CHANCE. Everyday is a chance to smile, to love, to forgive and to give second chances to those people whom we thought don't deserve because EVERYONE DESERVES TO HAVE IT.

DAY 3: KIDS' PARTY

DAY 3: "KIDS PARTY..."

"We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have."

I was inspired looking at the children very happy and really enjoying the party. Not all kids can have a birthday party like "kaye-kaye" did, i'm sure if kids were only adult, they will surely envy "kaye-kaye" and might not enjoy the party because of jealousy. Hmm, that's what i like about kids, they don't have any problems, they get something without complaining, they enjoy what they have with contentment.

On the 3rd day, God has a message for me, i'm really sure this is His message, 11:30 AM was KAYE KAYE's Birthday Party after the party I went to church with my mom and sister at 4 PM and the sermon is all about contentment.  See, God prepares my heart by appreciating the children at the party so that during the sermon I can appreciate His message. I'm so grateful, nothing really compares to the promise I have in Him.

Sometimes, we are too focused on the gift rather than the giver or focused on what other people might think about us.  We forget to enjoy the things God has given (1) because we are greedy and (2) we are guilty.
(1) The Bible says in Philippians 4:19 "and my God will supply all my NEED..." not GREED, kaya hindi tayo na-b-bless ni God kasi, we became selfish and discontent of what we have, we want more and if we cannot have what we want we BACKBITE God.

(2) the crowd wants us to be SAD but our God wants us to be GLAD. so in every gift God has given, ENJOY it with contentment by not having more but by being grateful of what you have and instead of focusing too much on the gift, be overwhelmed and thank the giver without minding the crowd. If God blesses you too much, do not decline but always abound. It's God's gift.

On my DAY 3, I rediscover the gift of ENJOYING with CONTENTMENT.  Thank God for this privilege. I must enjoy my life with contentment. I hope you, too.