"LOVE is like a TRAFFIC LIGHT, there are three colors which becomes a guide for us to know when to stop, to let go and to take action."
STOP!
Loving someone so much doesn't always mean they're the right one for us. Hindi laging may happy ending kapag nagmamahal ka because true love never ends. May pagkakataong mararamdaman mo ang sakit na dulot ng pagmamahal mo. Masakit isiping may mga taong hindi kayang magpahalaga sa mga taong nagmamahal sa kanila. Sabi nga... "It;s better to accept the fact that you are not appreciated than to insist yourself to someone who never really sees your worth." Habang patuloy mong minamahal ang taong iyon mas lalo kang nasasaktan DAHIL... natatakot kang tanggapin ang maaari pang mangyari. Na ang taong buong puso mong minahal ay bulag sa pagmamahal mo. Hindi porket mahal mo ang taong iyon ay siya na talaga ang para sa iyo. Natatakot kang mawala ang taong pinakamamahal mo pero siya ba takot ding mawala ka?
LETTING GO!
Letting go doesn't mean giving up! but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be. May mga bagay sa mundo na hindi nakatakda para sa atin , maaaring ang mga bagay na ninanais natin na maging sa atin sana ay iyon pang hindi kailanman magiging atin. Kailgangan mong matutong magparaya "let go" upang maka-move on at maka get over tayo sa sakit ng nakaraan. Loving someone is setting them free, letting them go. Masakit? Oo, pero para sa katulad mong nagmamahal NEVER SAY GOODBYE BECAUSE GOODBYE MEANS GOING AWAY AND GOING AWAY MEANS FORGETTING. To let go is not to deny but to accept. The hardest thing to do is to let go not because you want to but because you have to.
TAKE ACTION!
While someone breaks your heart another someone else is waiting to fix it. Proceed with caution. "Careful forethought to avoid danger or harm". Natatakot tayong masaktan, natatakot tayong harapin ang pwedeng mangyari, natatakot tayong magmahal muli. Kaya nga nauso ang salitang courage. Iyan ang kailangan natin to take action. Kung ang traffic light ay may yellow light para sa caution sign sa love ganun din kung alam nating masasaktan lang tayo.
wow! astonishing... i was so amazed yet was a little confused... Paano ba gawin ang isang bagay kung alam nating ito ang magdudulot sa atin ng pait at sakit? I agree when the author said, "natatakot kang mawala ang taong pinaka mamahal mo, pero siya takot bang mawala ka?" sometimes, we value the other person so much that we forget to value ourselves more. Bakit anong meron kung mawala siya? Hindi nga siya nawala pero nawala naman ang sarili mo dahil sa sobrang pag-alaga mo sa taong ito. It's better to lose the one you love than to lose yourself in valuing someone who doesn't even see your worth. The best thing to do for me is to STOP, LET GO and MOVE ON. Moving on doesn't mean finding someone else to be with you, but for me it means finding yourself, loving yourself more and that's it. We don't need another person in our lives. One is enough. Relationship complicates a person's life. And thus, ACCEPTING must be present. ACCEPT the fact that we will be on our own for the rest of our lives. we don't need another person to hurt us, to take us for granted and most especially to mistreat us. Be happy with your life by accepting your FATE.
I must be happy too... :)
